Child-free life vs child-free world? As more Australians embrace a child-free life, Insight explores the decision not to have kids, the stigma that comes with it, and the changing face of family. Watch Insight episode No Kids, No Problems Tuesday 16 June at 8.30PM on SBS or SBS On Demand.
Tanya Williams knew from a young age that she didn't want children .
"I'm not anti-children in general. I'm just anti-children for me," she told Insight. "[Being a parent] wasn't the lifestyle that I wanted."
The 54-year-old says she is more focused on having a successful career , passion projects and travelling the world.
"I just saw motherhood as a trap — as something that would stop me doing all the great things that I wanted to do in life."
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With nieces and nephews, Tanya and her husband of 30 years knew that they didn't need to have their own children to have children in their lives.
And when the Brisbane-based business owner researches a holiday, there's a key phrase she looks out for.
"If I see 'family friendly' … I'm not booking there, that's for sure," she said.
"If it's adults-only, even better."
Tanya understands that children are children but prefers travel accommodation that isn't posted as "family-friendly". Source: Supplied Tanya says many parents aren't doing enough to reprimand their children in shared spaces such as resorts.
"When you've got ... kids jumping in the pool or just causing havoc, and parents who ... let them do whatever they want, it's very annoying and inconsiderate ..." she said.
She also cited multiple flights where a child screamed "its head off".
"If I did the same thing, I'd be kicked out of somewhere.
"But I understand that they're children."
'The default route'
Melbourne-based content creator Julia Datt is also child-free and agrees.
Julia, who is in her 30s, also travels often and says that as someone with neurodivergence, screaming children on planes easily trigger panic attacks for her.
She thinks airlines should offer alternatives for uncomfortable passengers, such as adults-only zones.
Julia believes we need to "not default to family-friendly being the ‘automatic right of way'". Source: Supplied / Helen Tansey "I think it's very important for people to have a sense of comfort and a sense of safety while travelling," Julia said.
"And now we need to not default to family-friendly being the 'automatic right of way' ..."
Julia believes child-free women are "subject to an intense amount of scrutiny" about their lifestyle choices compared to people who are parents.
She says that "motherhood is always the default route for many people", but that children are not for everybody.
'Not everyone wants to be around everyone else's kids'
Kylie and Wayne Scholz have been married for 27 years and never tried to have children.
"Life just got busy. We just did our thing — and if we had kids, 'yay'," Kylie said.
"But it didn't happen, so we just continued with what we were passionate about."
Wayne and Kylie's caravan park turned adult-only at the end of last year. Source: Supplied The couple have run a caravan park in South Australia since 2013. Last year, they made the park adults only, and say a rising demand for child-free spaces moved them in that direction.
"Having travelled overseas and staying at adults-only resorts, we realised that we had an opportunity — it's a niche," Wayne said.
"Adults-only means no kids. It doesn't mean no clothes, obviously."
The couple say the overall response has been positive, and they're bridging a gap in the market, as caravan parks are typically promoted as family-friendly.
"A lot of travellers and tourists get displaced during school holidays, and they feel like they haven't got a place to go where they can be comfortable," Wayne said.
"Not everyone wants to be around everyone else's kids," Kyle said.
Wayne recognises that for some adults trying to relax on holidays, "the last thing you want is kids splashing and jumping in the pool all around you ..."
"There is a place for that, but [ours] is not one of those."
Declining fertility rates and intentions in Australia
More Australians are choosing not to have children.
In 2025-2026, the total fertility rate is expected to fall to a record low of 1.42 children per woman, which is well below the replacement level of 2.1, according to the 2025 Centre of Population statement on population.
Fertility intentions (an individual's or couple's conscious plan about whether they will have children) in Australia have also been falling since 2001 but remain above the total fertility rate.
Source: SBS Sociologist Ella Reed believes several factors could be at play in the shift in attitude towards having children — including the women's liberation movement, natural issues and economic concerns.
"People are really considering the future that is available for their childre…
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