Albanian singer complains about comments about her body: 'I want to dress sexy'

Bebes Rexha, an American singer of Albanian descent, shared her frustration over body-related comments on social media, expressing her desire to dress fashionably while dealing with criticism. In a candid tweet posted on X on September 6, 2026, she wrote: “I don’t know what to do with my boobies. They just got so massive and I hate the straight men in my comments who only come for that but then again a girl still wanna dress sexy. Idk we need an app for girls and gays.” She described feeling conflicted about how others focus on specific parts of her body, yet still wants to dress in a way that makes her feel confident. Her message sparked a wave of responses, some supportive, others mocking, with some users suggesting that the platform was already intended for such groups. The singer has long faced body-related critiques, but she continues to advocate for body positivity and freedom of expression. In another post, she expressed frustration over how women with curves are often perceived when wearing tight clothing, stating: “I feel like when girls with curvy bodies wear something tight we automatically look slutty.” This sentiment reflects broader concerns about societal expectations and how women’s bodies are judged based on appearance rather than individual choice. Meanwhile, Croatian TV broadcaster HRT journalist Ivana Perić took to Instagram to address the negative comments and personal questions she regularly receives online. She shared screenshots of messages labeling her as “antipatična” (“unpleasant”), “odvratna” (“repulsive”), and “nekulturna” (“uncultured”). Some comments even intruded into her private life, asking about her family and children. Perić emphasized that being present on social media does not mean her private life belongs to the public. “My content is my choice,” she stated, explaining that while she shares recipes, experiences, and lessons learned through her journey, she does not owe explanations about her personal life. She stressed that individuals have the right to maintain privacy and set boundaries. Perić highlighted that certain questions, though seemingly harmless at first glance, can deeply hurt someone going through difficult times. For example, she pointed out that a comment like “What, no son?” could affect someone who has lost a child or is dealing with a family tragedy. “Such words can deeply wound someone,” she warned, adding that responding with insults like “antipatična” reveals more about the person making them than the one receiving them. She concluded by reinforcing that maintaining privacy on social media should not be considered a shame. “It’s shameful to think that having access to your screen gives you the right to pry into someone else’s life,” she wrote. “You can like my content or not. You can follow me or leave with one click. But accessing my profile isn’t a pass to my private life. Boundaries exist, and I won’t apologize for having them.” Her post received widespread support from followers, many of whom agreed with her stance. One user wrote: “That’s terrible, disgusting, rude, and totally unnecessary… Thank you, Ivana, for every post, recipe, and sharing your experiences… And you know that, let the countryside tell its story, the world is this cruel… Let them, this speaks about them, not about you…” Another praised her mission, saying: “It’s time to punish those who use comments to solve their frustrations, and you, Ivana, stay exactly as you are, a smart, interesting, and dear person from whom much can be learned.” Others advised her to simply delete and block negative comments instead of wasting energy on them. Both Rexha and Perić have used their platforms to challenge societal norms around body image and personal privacy, highlighting the ongoing struggle for self-expression and respect in digital spaces. Their posts reflect growing awareness among public figures of the need to protect their autonomy and set clear limits in an environment where online interactions can blur the lines between public and private life.