Elle a annulé un rendez-vous parce que le restaurant n'était pas assez luxueux, et maintenant elle a plein de nouveaux favoris.

Savannah Pagnozzi, a 29-year-old influencer based in New York’s Hudson Yards neighborhood, canceled her first date with a man after he suggested a restaurant she found insufficiently luxurious. The incident sparked widespread discussion on social media, with many users expressing their opinions, some supportive and others critical. Pagnozzi, however, maintains that her decision has led to an unexpected outcome, she now has numerous new suitors interested in taking her out on dates. Pagnozzi explained that while she faced criticism online, she believes the situation highlights her personal standards. She stated that she does not intend to lower them, even though the experience has brought attention to her preferences. “Many men have reached out saying they would like to take me out and suggest really great restaurants,” she shared. She emphasized that being open about her expectations makes her appealing to potential partners who respect her boundaries. The controversy began when Pagnozzi posted a video on Instagram explaining her choice. In the video, which has been viewed over 230,000 times, she outlined her criteria for a first date. She expects a restaurant with white tablecloths and a main course priced between 30 and 60 euros. She argues that the choice of venue reflects a person’s character and values. “If we don’t agree on the place for our first date, we probably won’t agree on more important things either,” she said. Not all responses were positive. Some commenters expressed skepticism, suggesting that she should settle for less expensive options like McDonald’s. Others questioned her judgment, claiming that she had not yet found someone suitable. Despite these criticisms, Pagnozzi remains confident in her stance, believing that clear communication about one’s standards is essential in dating. Pagnozzi met the man through the app Luxy, designed for wealthy singles. He is a 38-year-old working in the financial sector. According to her, the issue was not solely about the restaurant. She mentioned that there were already problems with how he planned the date and communicated with her before suggesting the restaurant. “When he proposed that restaurant, I just said, ‘No, this won’t work,’” she recalled. She did not reveal the name of the restaurant, describing it as a “completely ordinary place” located on the Lower East Side. She compared it to a relaxed chain like The Smith, noting that it is accessible even in casual attire. However, she prefers to present herself in a more refined manner during her first date. “I don’t want to look like that on my first date,” she added. Pagnozzi moved to New York with the goal of finding a life partner. She views first dates as opportunities for fun rather than formal interviews. “A date should be enjoyable. It should be a place with a good atmosphere, a little romantic and exciting,” she said. She criticized the trend of treating dates like job interviews, arguing that such an approach lacks spontaneity and charm. Her viral post seems to have worked in her favor. She reports receiving messages from several men who have suggested upscale venues. “They choose really nice places. Some of the invites I’ve accepted. I’m ready to find my husband,” she concluded. Her story continues to gain traction, reflecting broader conversations about dating norms and personal expectations in modern relationships.