Cuando las feministas me llamaban "incel", ahora un estudio mide la soledad sexual de las mujeres.

A study has revealed that women who identify as "femcel", a term used to describe females who feel trapped in sexual solitude, experience similar levels of anxiety and frustration as men labeled "incel." The research, conducted by researchers Alexandra Zidenberg of the University of Montreal and Brandon Sparks of the University of New Brunswick, surveyed 119 women, including 61 who identified as femcel or "forever alone," and 58 who were single but did not adopt this label. The findings highlight a growing awareness of the emotional toll that societal pressures can have on women's sexual well-being. The study found that women identifying as femcel reported significantly higher levels of sexual-related depression, anxiety, and concern compared to their counterparts. On a scale of up to 25, these women scored an average of 19.2 for sexual depression, versus 11.2 among the control group. For sexual anxiety, the scores were 17 against 11.8, while concerns about sex reached 13.1 compared to 7.8 in the other group. Fear of sexual relationships was measured at 18.4 for femcel participants, against 14.8 for the others. Additionally, the sense that one’s sexual life depends on external factors was rated at 14.4 for the femcel group, compared to 9.6 for the rest. This research builds upon earlier discussions around the concept of involuntary celibacy, which originated with the male-dominated online community known as "incels." These individuals often face criticism for holding views that some consider misogynistic or harmful. In the past, such labels were frequently applied to men who expressed dissatisfaction with their romantic lives, sometimes leading to public backlash and even attempts to silence them through social media bans. One individual who experienced this firsthand described being called an "incel" repeatedly by feminist groups, resulting in his Instagram account being shut down after widespread reporting. His experience highlights how such labels can carry serious consequences. The emergence of the term "femcel" suggests that similar frustrations are not exclusive to men. It refers to women who believe they are unable to form romantic or sexual relationships due to perceived shortcomings in their physical appearance or other qualities deemed desirable in modern dating culture. This phenomenon reflects broader societal trends where expectations surrounding attractiveness and desirability continue to shape personal experiences and self-perception. The study underscores the need for further exploration into how gender norms influence sexual satisfaction and mental health. While the research focuses on women who self-identify as femcel, it opens the door to understanding the complex interplay between cultural ideals and individual emotional states. As more attention is given to these issues, there is potential for greater empathy and support for those affected by such feelings, regardless of gender. The findings also raise questions about the role of media and public discourse in shaping perceptions of sexuality and relationships. The historical context of labeling individuals based on their sexual experiences illustrates the power of language in influencing both personal identity and collective attitudes. As society continues to evolve, so too does the conversation around what it means to navigate love, intimacy, and self-worth in a world shaped by shifting standards.