From rubber ball to virtual games: how three generations enjoyed their childhood

On the occasion of Children’s Day, three generations shared insights into their childhoods, highlighting both remarkable changes and enduring needs. The conversation unfolded with families and child development experts reflecting on how children in Argentina have viewed and continue to view the world, the toys and games that accompanied different generations, and what has changed, and what has remained constant, about childhood in the country. Adriana Pérez Caballier, 61 years old, grew up in Gualeguaychú, Entre Ríos, and currently resides in Vicente López. She recalls playing with siblings both at home and in the streets, engaging in imaginative play such as acting out roles of teacher and shopkeeper, and creating theatrical performances using costumes and guitars. Her favorite memories include moments of creativity and discovery, such as filling an old bathtub with water and using it as a makeshift pool for play. She remembers listening to a local radio host who was a beloved figure during her childhood, and she values the significance of siestas as times of learning and exploration. Her daughter, Paula Cabrera, 34, shares similar sentiments about the importance of play, though her experiences reflect a more modern era. She fondly recalls plush dogs as her favorite toy, along with other nostalgic items like the "mancha," a dark room used for hiding, and a canned sardine. She grew up in the time of pop stars and music bands like Bandana, often spending hours pretending to be a singer in front of the mirror with the radio on. For her, the home and the street were key spaces for play, filled with football matches, afternoon tea breaks, summer games of fireworks, and long bike rides. She cherishes the summers spent at her grandparents' countryside house, which she describes as a kind of personal Disney. Paula and her son Rafi share their childhood with their grandmother Adriana and mother Paula Hernán Zenteno. Like her mother, Ámbar, 11 years old, also holds a stuffed animal dear to her heart, a bear named Renato, gifted by her uncle. She enjoys sleeping with him each night and plays board games such as "A Quién Elijo." Family plays a central role in her playtime, as she often interacts with cousins and sisters. One cherished memory involves watching the 2022 World Cup with her cousins and aunt, where they made a pact to jump into the pool if Argentina won, and they did just that, all wet, celebrating together. Verónica Llobet, an expert in children's rights and researcher at the National Council of Scientific and Technical Research (CONICET), identifies three major shifts that distinguish today’s childhood from that of previous generations. First, there has been a profound transformation in intergenerational relationships and family authority structures. Many adults today grew up under authoritarian regimes marked by violence and silence, leading them to build parenting styles that contrast with these oppressive models. Respect is now seen as distinct from blind obedience, and adult authority is exercised with greater awareness and empathy. The second change is technological. Screens and social media have given children access to independence and information previously unimaginable. This shift has altered how children interact with the world, offering new opportunities while also introducing challenges related to screen time and digital engagement. As the discussion continues, further insights will emerge, shedding light on evolving perspectives and ongoing concerns regarding the well-being and development of children in Argentina.