Men and women have decided that this is by far the worst sex position.

A recent study has identified a sexual position widely regarded as the most disliked among both men and women, despite its theoretical appeal. According to research conducted by NapLab, a website specializing in sleep and intimate relationships, the so-called "69 position," where both partners engage in mutual oral stimulation simultaneously, received the lowest approval rating, only 3.89 percent of participants rated it positively. This finding contrasts sharply with the popularity of more traditional positions such as the missionary (21.68 percent) and the cowboy (19.33 percent). The doggy style emerged as the most preferred, garnering support from 29.4 percent of respondents. The study highlights a surprising consensus around the 69 position’s lack of appeal, despite its reputation as a symbol of mutual pleasure. Participants described the position as logistically challenging and often frustrating. One user on Reddit compared the experience to two people trying to massage each other at the same time, emphasizing that for true relaxation, one person should focus on receiving while the other provides pleasure. This division of attention, according to many, undermines the potential for enjoyment. Women were particularly vocal in their criticism of the 69 position. A survey conducted by Seduce AI involving 2,000 women found that nearly 29 percent considered the 69 position the worst of all. Many cited feelings of exposure and insecurity, noting that being close to a partner's face near intimate body parts can trigger self-consciousness. Additionally, the absence of eye contact and emotional connection was frequently mentioned as making the experience feel mechanical and distant. One participant described struggling to focus on her own pleasure because she was constantly worried about whether she was performing adequately or how her partner perceived her actions. Men shared similar sentiments regarding the 69 position. Although they are often assumed to be less selective, many admitted difficulty in relaxing and enjoying the experience while having someone’s crotch near their face and simultaneously trying to provide pleasure to their partner. This mental effort often led to neither party achieving orgasm. Surveys published in Men's Health corroborate these findings, placing the 69 position regularly on the list of least favored sexual positions due to the perception that it feels more like a task than an intimate act of connection. Beyond the 69 position, several other positions have been noted for their unpopularity. The "reverse cowboy" position, where the woman is on top but facing away from her partner, is another frequent subject of complaints. Women often cite discomfort from the angle of penetration and a lack of intimacy due to not seeing their partner's face. Men, meanwhile, tend to find this position less satisfying due to the reduced physical engagement and control. The study underscores broader discussions about sexual preferences and the complexity of human intimacy. While individual tastes vary greatly, certain positions consistently draw criticism for practical challenges and emotional disconnect. Researchers suggest that communication and mutual understanding between partners play crucial roles in navigating these preferences effectively. As the debate over sexual practices continues, the findings serve as a reminder that what works for one couple may not work for another, highlighting the need for open dialogue and flexibility in intimate relationships.