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It Took Me Years to Finally Feel Like I Was Hot. Then I Met My Wife, and It’s Only Been Downhill Since.
United States🏛️ Politics15 hr. ago

It Took Me Years to Finally Feel Like I Was Hot. Then I Met My Wife, and It’s Only Been Downhill Since.

The letter writer, a man in his mid-30s, writes about feeling sad due to a lack of intimacy in his marriage. His wife, who is on the autism spectrum, experiences physical limitations such as joint pain and fatigue from caring for their young child, making sexual activity rare. The writer feels he worked hard to build his self-esteem and attractiveness before meeting his wife, only to now feel rejected despite loving her. He acknowledges it is not her fault but seeks advice on coping with these emotions. The response encourages him to validate his feelings rather than dismiss them and questions whether his self-worth is overly tied to external validation.

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It Took Me Years to Finally Feel Like I Was Hot. Then I Met My Wife, and It’s Only Been Downhill Since.

The letter writer, a man in his mid-30s, writes about feeling sad due to a lack of intimacy in his marriage. His wife, who is on the autism spectrum, experiences physical limitations such as joint pain and fatigue from caring for their young child, making sexual activity rare. The writer feels he worked hard to build his self-esteem and attractiveness before meeting his wife, only to now feel rejected despite loving her. He acknowledges it is not her fault but seeks advice on coping with these emotions. The response encourages him to validate his feelings rather than dismiss them and questions whether his self-worth is overly tied to external validation.

Bias read (Center): The article discusses personal relationships and emotional challenges within a marriage, focusing on individual experiences rather than political issues, policies, or public figures. There is no clear ideological framing or bias in the content.

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