Galilea Montijo was "dead in life" when her son, at age 11, told her he wanted to live with his dad

Galilea Montijo described feeling "dead while alive" after her 11-year-old son, Mateo, told her he wanted to live with his father, Fernando Reina. The decision marked one of the most painful moments in the television host's life, according to interviews she gave recently. Montijo and Reina were married for 11 years before announcing their mutual divorce in March 2023. They have a son named Mateo, born in 2012. After their separation, they maintained a friendly relationship focused on their child’s well-being. Mateo, who has been training to become a professional football player, has lived in Acapulco with his father for the past couple of years. Meanwhile, Montijo resides in Mexico City. Although they see each other frequently, the absence of her son continues to weigh heavily on her. In a recent episode of the show "Netas Divinas," which she co-hosts, Montijo spoke openly about how this situation still causes her pain. She admitted that not hearing him at home makes her feel dead inside. She explained that although Mateo comes and goes, they have gradually adjusted to this new dynamic. However, the moment was particularly difficult when Mateo approached her just before turning 12 and asked to move in with his father. He told her that his happiness was with his dad, adding that she could visit whenever she wanted and that the doors would always be open for her. Montijo confessed that she pleaded with him not to go, but ultimately respected his choice. She reflected on how children can sometimes feel like elastic bands, when you let them go even slightly, you sense they might slip away, yet the band always returns. She emphasized that Mateo knows she is available around the clock, but seeing young children made her question when her own had left and when he had grown up. She expressed disbelief at how quickly time had passed, recalling how it seemed only yesterday when she changed his diaper and fed him baby food. For Montijo, the experience of an empty nest began at age 11, marking a profound shift in her life. She shared these feelings with her colleagues on "Netas Divinas," revealing that she felt judged by others after disclosing that her son wanted to live with his father. Many assumed she was a bad mother, but her therapist suggested that Mateo’s decision was more about wanting to support his father, who lives with one of his other children. Montijo recounted that her therapist mentioned Mateo felt responsible for caring for his father, a sentiment she confirmed. She admitted that when her son left, she literally felt as though she was dying. Describing her emotional state during that period, she said she walked around like a zombie, unable to shake the feeling of loss. The separation has not altered the cordial relationship between Montijo and Reina, who continue to prioritize their son’s welfare. Despite the challenges, both parents remain committed to ensuring Mateo’s happiness and stability. Montijo, however, continues to grapple with the emotional impact of her son moving out, a reality she admits will always leave a mark on her heart.